Next time you're frustrated or discouraged because you can't see how things are going to work out for you, remember you're not supposed to see "how." 

Your job is to see "what" you want, not how to get there.

When it seems like all the news is bad, all the things are breaking, and nothing will ever be good again …

When no one’s nice, and the wrongs can’t be righted, and you can’t even have a good cry because the tears are all used up …

That’s a good time to give yourself solace. Grant yourself the gift of relief.

Even when you think it can't get any better, that's exactly what life does when you flow appreciation, because that's what momentum does. Whatever you activate grows!

That was this week's reminder out on a new trail with Harvey ...

After a love interest stopped giving me what I wanted, and I eventually stopped needing him to deliver, it came together beautifully.

This alignment was somewhat accidental, but you can learn from my experience and do this on purpose next time something isn't coming together for you ...

What happens when you love someone so much you can't stop talking about how much you love them?

That stuff rubs off. :)

When it's time to make a big decision, I don’t have to evaluate the options. I don’t have to perform due diligence. I don’t have to ask the experts.

I don’t have to know all the angles or consult the oracle. All I have to do is listen to what feels better. That’s how inner guidance points the way forward.

I love remembering that I never need to decide anything. The way is always clear when I listen within to the part of me that knows.

If you think money can't come to you because you don't have a job or any other way it can flow in, you're right. 

And if you think money comes to you in all sorts of delightful ways even when you don't have a job, you're right.

This is the story of a guy who doubled his income with an "attitude of gratitude."

You can speak up, or not. You can protest, or not. You can be peaceful about it, or not. You can focus on what feels better, or not. No one knows what you should be doing right now except for your inner guidance. Trust that above all else.

When you want to lose the weight, or get rid of the debt, or heal from this illness or stop feeling lonely ... 

It's good to remember that we can’t get rid of what we don’t want. Whatever we focus on grows. So when you want to get rid of something, it works way way better when we engage these two things.

What do you consistently do every day without fail? Most of us have something we're super regular about: our daily coffee, checking email, taking supplements or meds. 

Of all the things on our daily to-do list, an alignment practice is the one we'll get the most leverage from!

How much contrast do you engage before remembering you can call a halt at any time? I was 17 hours in on a mildly miserable experience before realizing it was time to change my mind.

Here's to remembering sooner rather than later that we are in charge of how much contrast we put up with ...

All this talk about global recession sounds like a good time for us to remember that we each create our own financial reality. 

These are the three thoughts I use to stay aligned to financial abundance when others choose differently ...

This isn’t our first rodeo. Conscious creators know how to play with contrast. We know how to stay out of resistance. We know how to say yes to what is and to look forward to what comes next.

Here are three questions to help us make the most of our time with coronavirus ...

Sometimes conscious creators expect the reality to change before our thoughts and feelings do. That’s not how it works!

If you’re using law of attraction to manifest a job change, or a new romance, or weight loss, or more money (or anything at all) so that you can feel better, you’ll want to rethink your approach.

We can only get what we already feel, so if you’re counting on external life changes in order to feel better, you’re stuck in limbo.

It seems obvious that we’d know how to say yes to what we want when it shows up, but sometimes it’s more challenging than you’d guess …

Having what you want takes alignment, and sometimes that takes practice!

If you've ever adopted unhelpful beliefs because of something you read about a study that was conducted or research that was published, let's remember this about things proven to be "true" ...

Anything can be proven true when someone puts enough attention on it. 

That's where reality comes from. So don't take those results too seriously unless they help support the reality you prefer.

It wasn't pretty and I'm not particularly proud of it, but this is the story of what happened when I stopped resisting the low feelings.

If you haven't kept your angry skills up to date, this may inspire you to embrace them with more gusto next time the bounce back isn't bouncing.

Current events got you down? You're not alone. Here's a thought that might offer solace in dark times ...

Sometimes it seems impossible to ignore the reality right in front of us. But many of us have more skills than we admit when it comes to pretending ...

Ignoring what's so is a manifesting skill we use in lots of other everyday ways that we can bring to bear in our LOA game, too. 

This is the story of the day a muggle love interest had to LOA coach me into dropping thoughts that blocked possibilities for a love relationship.

Even I, who knows that anything is possible, lost sight of that in the face of a contrary reality ...

It's a new year and it seems like everyone's got an inspiring message telling us to get out there and carpe diem.

They want us to hustle and slay and get busy on those goals, because dreams don't come true while we sit on the couch.

Oh, contraire. This is my response to the reader who "knows" he needs to hit the gym in order to hit his fitness goals ...

No LOA lessons or manifesting insights here ...

Just a simple activation of joy, appreciation and love as I tell the story of one of my favorite things: Harvey.

This is what vibration management is all about: reveling in reasons and excuses to feel good!

A fellow creator said she's tired of feeling angry with her kids' behavior and asked how to use law of attraction to make them behave.

This is my take on how to break the cycle and lead the way to positive change. (Hint: it's not about changing their behavior.)

I've got my own challenge underway on this same topic, except mine is with cats, not kids. 

As I was inspired to upgrade and eliminate some key relationships this new year, I remembered that no matter how much I focus on "out there," nothing can be any different until I'm feeling it "in here."