Year end is a perfect time to release the things, habits, people, or thoughts that aren't serving you.
I broke up with my calendar, phone notifications, some social media, covid 2.0, along with a couple friends.
They say breaking up is hard to do, but it's actually a big vibrational relief!
If you could do anything right now, what would it be? That's the question that changes everything.
At least, following that answer does. When we honor our highest happiness, we create the kind of alignment that ensures swift delivery of favorite dreams come true.
I propose it's high time we stop muggling our way through life and more consistently live what we know works best: following our highest excitement!
Of everything I’ve experimented with and all the tools I’ve tried out over the span of two decades, what stands out for me as the single most helpful practice for creating what we want is this:
Find a way to feel better.
Before expecting reality to change, we have to lead the way vibrationally. That means being willing to feel what we want before it happens.
This is basic stuff, but worth remembering that we can only get what we feel.
Feel it first, then let it happen -because reality can only follow your lead.
This last year hasn't been easy for a lot of folks.
Which is why it's more important than ever that we turn attention toward what is lovable about 2020, because right now we're setting the tone for 2021.
An unsuspecting mentor shows conscious creators how to sail through contrast ...
Tiktok's @420doggface208 is a great example of how to not get taken out of the game when things go wrong. Instead how to keep your vibe up and let the benefits from contrast roll in.
After watching a couple friends blow their chances to relax and enjoy "time between jobs," I realized they weren't the only ones doing this routine.
It's not unusual for us to hold out for the resolution of a problem before we breathe out a sigh of relief and get back to enjoying life. But it doesn't need to be like that ... Conscious creators can make a habit of "enjoying the meantime."
After my attempt to convert an LOA skeptic with a simple manifesting experiment, I realized he's already a master manifestor.
Here's what happened when we tried to show each other what we each believed ...
Loving and missing feel like two different emotions to me, so when it was time for White Kitty and Elsa to move out of their worn out bodies and on to whatever's next, I made them a big promise ...
That instead of missing them I would love them. This is another reminder about all the different ways we can practice unconditional love (physical bodies in present reality not required).
Any time we think we need someone else to behave a certain way in order for us to be happy, we've lost our LOA minds.
The truth is our satisfaction and well-being requires only us. So anytime we think someone else is ruining our party, it's worth remembering that we don't need them in order to have what we want.
Imagine Universe knows an even better way to get you what you want ...
And imagine in order to allow that you need to let go of knowing so certainly what it should be.
That was my lesson when manifesting a new physical healer.
The stories we tell (to ourselves and others) want to keep coming true. Even if we're telling an old story, it looks for ways to unfold in our reality again and again.
That's why it's worth being selective about the stories we tell. Some are worth putting on repeat; others ... not so much.
When we call in something new and better, we have to be willing to make room for that change.
Life continually wants to get better for us, and in order for that to happen we have to let go of what was in order to allow for what’s coming.
This is a reminder to welcome change when it's upon you ...
A short but sweet reminder about how our focus changes who shows up for us ... which is why the guy I'm dating is different for me than he was for anyone else.
Here's to seeing the best in everyone around us!
Next time you're frustrated or discouraged because you can't see how things are going to work out for you, remember you're not supposed to see "how."
Your job is to see "what" you want, not how to get there.
When it seems like all the news is bad, all the things are breaking, and nothing will ever be good again …
When no one’s nice, and the wrongs can’t be righted, and you can’t even have a good cry because the tears are all used up …
That’s a good time to give yourself solace. Grant yourself the gift of relief.
Even when you think it can't get any better, that's exactly what life does when you flow appreciation, because that's what momentum does. Whatever you activate grows!
That was this week's reminder out on a new trail with Harvey ...
After a love interest stopped giving me what I wanted, and I eventually stopped needing him to deliver, it came together beautifully.
This alignment was somewhat accidental, but you can learn from my experience and do this on purpose next time something isn't coming together for you ...
What happens when you love someone so much you can't stop talking about how much you love them?
That stuff rubs off. :)
When it's time to make a big decision, I don’t have to evaluate the options. I don’t have to perform due diligence. I don’t have to ask the experts.
I don’t have to know all the angles or consult the oracle. All I have to do is listen to what feels better. That’s how inner guidance points the way forward.
I love remembering that I never need to decide anything. The way is always clear when I listen within to the part of me that knows.
If you think money can't come to you because you don't have a job or any other way it can flow in, you're right.
And if you think money comes to you in all sorts of delightful ways even when you don't have a job, you're right.
This is the story of a guy who doubled his income with an "attitude of gratitude."
You can speak up, or not. You can protest, or not. You can be peaceful about it, or not. You can focus on what feels better, or not. No one knows what you should be doing right now except for your inner guidance. Trust that above all else.
When you want to lose the weight, or get rid of the debt, or heal from this illness or stop feeling lonely ...
It's good to remember that we can’t get rid of what we don’t want. Whatever we focus on grows. So when you want to get rid of something, it works way way better when we engage these two things.
What do you consistently do every day without fail? Most of us have something we're super regular about: our daily coffee, checking email, taking supplements or meds.
Of all the things on our daily to-do list, an alignment practice is the one we'll get the most leverage from!